Sunday, March 4, 2012

Can you accept it ?!

The last Family Photo of her. MAYBE?

Yes. The woman with black gown is my aunty. Last Thursday, when I received uncle Ben's message, he said "she sick seriously" and need my help to take care of his dog. The moment, I thought he means 发高烧 and cannot get up from bed.
But, when I ask my another uncle what happened actually. Then I got shocked!
He said that she's lack of blood now, and just B- and O- blood type can help her.
From my research, there just 7% of people have O- blood and 2% of people have B- blood.
All of us know it's hard for searching these types of blood. So, everyone keep sending the message and share it on FACEBOOK.
Everyone thought she will get well soon but it's out of our expectation, she's getting worse day by day.

When she felt not well and go for checking, you know what doctor said?
The doctor said she's pregnant. And, everyone is happy. But then, how come it become a cancer?
Doctor?! Are you a doctor?! I HATE doctor from now on!
From pregnant, it can become "hydatidiform mole"? then "brain cancer", then the bacteria spread to lungs and livers, and become "lungs cancer and livers cancer" ???
Doctor, can you explain to me "WHY"?!

Last night, we got a bad news. My uncle said she's not awake and blood keep bleeding in her body.
(I was worrying and cannot sleep well)

This morning, the doctor said that her brain dead already but her heart beating still which means she's not willing to leave us. Therefore,the stupid doctor ask her family to bring her back home which means ask us to give up. Again, I don't think the doctor have a lovely heart. Hey! There's still a miracle for her to live OK!

But, family members do not give up and ask everyone pray for her.
Unfortunately, she passed away at 1.30pm (5/3/2012).
I can't imagine how's everyone there especially her hubby and both of her child (The picture shows them)

I know it hard for accept it but it happened! What to do? I feel sad also. (Down)
For her family members, hear me, no one expect this will happen and don't blame on yourself.
I know everyone do not give up on her and she do so.
But, why she leave us today? Think positively, maybe God do not want her to suffer like this.
Do you know how suffer a person need to attack 4 cancers together?
You don't know, I also don't know.
I just know that when I get sick or flu, it can make me feel like dying already.

Anyway, AH SIM, rest in peace. We are always with you. ♥♥♥

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